These thoughtful conversations prompts will provide an easy and relaxing way to discuss these rich topics.

Month 1: An Elegant Pause

·What does an intentional, elegant pause look like for you?

· When you pause, what feelings or thoughts tend to surface first?

· How could one hour of pause each week change your pace of life?

· How do you know when your soul is tired?

· What’s one way you could create more margin in your week?

· How do you think God views rest compared to how you view it?

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>> For those who desire accompanying Scriptures to read. These verses hold to the theme of rest, margin, and listening to God

Psalm 46:10 — "Be still, and know that I am God."

Matthew 11:28-29 — "Come to Me, all who labor and are heavy laden..."

Isaiah 30:15 — "In quietness and trust shall be your strength."

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Month 2: Seasons of Life & Identity

· Who were you ten years ago and who are you now?

· What opportunities do you have for reinventing yourself, if desired?

· What do you like about yourself in this season?

· In what area do you want to see transformation this year?

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>> For those who desire accompanying Scriptures to read. These verses hold to the theme of growth, transformation and identity.

Ecclesiastes 3:1 — "For everything there is a season..."

2 Corinthians 5:17 — "If anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation."

Jeremiah 29:11 — "For I know the plans I have for you..."

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Month 3: Friends & Acquaintances

· What are you doing to cultivate your friendships?

· What does an acquaintance versus a close friend look like to you?

· How do you handle your various circles of friendships – in person, social media, work, neighbors, etc.

· Who in your life feels like a safe place for your soul?

· How can you be that safe place for someone else?

· What’s a memory with friends that makes you smile?

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>> For those who desire accompanying Scriptures to read. These verses hold to the theme of relationships and community.

Proverbs 17:17 — "A friend loves at all times."

Ecclesiastes 4:9-10 — "Two are better than one..."

Philippians 2:4 — "Let each of you look out not only for his own interests, but also the interests of others."

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Month 4: Marriage Seasons

· How do you describe marriage in the first half of 40 years?

· How do you describe marriage in the second half of 40 years?

· What are you doing to encourage your spouse and build your marriage?

· What makes your marriage fun in this season?

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>> For those who desire accompanying Scriptures to read. These verses hold to the theme of love, commitment, companionship

Ecclesiastes 4:12 — "A cord of three strands is not quickly broken."

Ephesians 4:2-3 — "Be completely humble and gentle..."

1 Corinthians 13:4-7 — "Love is patient, love is kind...love never fails."

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Month 5: All the Roles

· How are you doing in these mom-seasons? Babies? Toddlers? Elementary? Middle School? High School?

· How do you love and nurture adult children without smothering/controlling them?

· How are you navigating your changing role as a mom with adult children?

· How do you help your kids establish their own families – to “leave and cleave?"

· What role do you want to play as a grandmother?

· How are you dealing with caregiving for your parents/family?

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>> For those who desire accompanying Scriptures to read. These verses hold to the themes of motherhood, family, caregiving and generations.

Deuteronomy 6:6-7 — Teaching God's truth to the next generation.

Proverbs 22:6 — "Train up a child in the way he should go."

Psalm 145:4 — "One generation shall commend Your works to another."

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Month 6: Joy & Simple Pleasures

· What’s something that recently brought you joy?

· How can joy exist even in a hard season?

· What’s one small joy you could intentionally add to this week?

· How does joy give you strength?

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>> For those who desire accompanying Scriptures to read. These verses hold to the themes of joy, strength and contentment.

Nehemiah 8:10 — "The joy of the Lord is your strength."

Philippians 4:4 — "Rejoice in the Lord always."

Psalm 16:11 — "In Your presence there is fullness of joy."

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Month 7: Scripture & Revelation

· What is your rhythm and favorite time, place and way to engage with Scripture?

· What is God revealing to you through His Word lately?

· What Scriptures brings you the most joy or peace these days?

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>> For those who desire accompanying Scriptures to read. These verses hold to the themes of God's Word and spiritual growth.

Psalm 119:105 — "Your word is a lamp to my feet."

Hebrews 4:12 — "The word of God is living and active."

Joshua 1:8 — Meditate on God's Word day and night.

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Month 8: Beauty & Aging

· Where have you noticed beauty this week — in nature, art, or people?

· How does beauty point you toward God?

· How are you dealing with aging and what is your biggest challenge?

· What secrets do you have for aging, hormones or beauty tips.

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>> For those who desire accompanying Scriptures to read. These verses hold to the themes of grace, wisdom and lasting beauty.

Psalm 90:12 — "Teach us to number our days."

Proverbs 31:30 — "Charm is deceptive and beauty is fleeting..."

2 Corinthians 4:16 — "Though outwardly we are wasting away, inwardly we are being renewed."

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Month 9: Music, Art and Creativity

· What kind of music brings calm and makes you feel happy and hopeful?

· What song that has encouraged, inspired, or carried you recently?

· How does music influence your mood or mindset?

· What creative outlets do you love and find refreshing?

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>> For those who desire accompanying Scriptures to read. These verses hold to the themes of worship and creativity.

Psalm 96:1 — "Sing to the Lord a new song."

Exodus 35:35 — God gives skill, artistry, and creativity.

Colossians 3:16 — Sing with gratitude in your hearts to God.

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Month 10: Hope

· What’s something you’re looking forward to?

· How does hope change the way you approach challenges?

· Where do you need fresh hope right now?

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>> For those who desire accompanying Scriptures to read. These verses hold to the themes of confidence and hope.

Romans 15:13 — "May the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace."

Lamentations 3:22-23 — "His mercies are new every morning."

Hebrews 10:23 — "Let us hold unswervingly to the hope we profess."

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Month 11: Gratitude

· What are you most thankful for these days?

· What has been difficult to be grateful for?

· Name three things you’re thankful for right now.

· How has gratitude shifted your mood or perspective in the past?

· What’s a small, ordinary blessing you sometimes overlook?

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>> For those who desire accompanying Scriptures to read. These verses hold to the themes of thanksgiving and perspective.

1 Thessalonians 5:18 — "Give thanks in all circumstances."

Psalm 103:2 — "Forget not all His benefits."

Colossians 3:15 — "Be thankful."

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Month 12: Legacy

· When you look back over your life, what do you not want to regret?

· In what ways do you want your life to impact eternity?

· What would you like people to say at your funeral?

· What do you wish/pray for for your children and grandchildren?

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>> For those who desire accompanying Scriptures to read. These verses hold to the themes of finishing well and impacting future generations.

Psalm 78:4 — Tell the next generation of the Lord's works.

2 Timothy 4:7 — "I have fought the good fight, I have finished the race."

Proverbs 13:22 — "A good person leaves an inheritance to their children's children."